How to be happy?

How to be happy?
Wonder why some people seem happy always and some others seem sad mostly? Do you believe that there will be someone who has had only good experiences in life? Everyone would have gone through some miserable moments in the journey of life. Human being is a package of flaws and near perfection and how can we expect a life with good experiences only? When good things happen, your reflex will make you feel happy. We need to groom ourselves to find happiness even in a miserable moment. You need to find happiness in everything you do and experience. Believe there is nothing such as perfection and keep your mind open to anything that may happen. Do not keep your mind focussed on the good things that may happen. You will experience or feel what you have trained your mind to believe. Believe that the basic motive of life is good and be happy with whatever may happen. Train your mind to laugh over tears. One of the most important factors for feeling happy is to live with integrity and honesty. One of the initial lessons for all of us was to be honest. Telling the truth is not an essential part of being happy but definitely, a big part. All of us would have been in trouble sometime or the other by telling the truth however, would feel relieved, as there’s nothing that we are holding back in our mind. Telling the truth would make you feel bad at times when that upsets the other person for no good reason. Being verbally incontinent is not acting with integrity and honesty. You can refrain from sharing things that are personal to you, as that doesn’t add any value to the listener other than just spicing up the conversation. You need to use your discretion wisely while striving to be honest and act with integrity to make you happy.