Self motivation

I reckon self motivation is the mightiest of all the strengths one can possess as that could bring about changes in your life. That is the reason behind me pondering the three elements that contribute to motivating self. Who doesn't want to achieve what you covet? Before we even think what to achieve, contemplate the desires. Desire could be for anything but to desire for the right thing is a power within you. More than allowing others to guide you guide yourself with your conscience and you will make no mistakes. Once you have identified and prioritized your desires, entice your mind to believe in them. Belief plays an important part in being motivated. Only if you believe in yourself would you believe in your motives. Once again, it's proved that the power is within you. Your belief could be the stimulus to the actions to achieve your target. Easiest of the three elements is accepting what you have achieved. Accept the changes and enjoy your achievements. Did you even realize that you have already achieved what you desired for when you decided to read this post? Yes, that's the strength of self motivation. You are self motivated to believe in this post. This is just the beginning of a saga of influencing the self. Enjoy the experience of self motivation!

How to be happy?

How to be happy?
Wonder why some people seem happy always and some others seem sad mostly? Do you believe that there will be someone who has had only good experiences in life? Everyone would have gone through some miserable moments in the journey of life. Human being is a package of flaws and near perfection and how can we expect a life with good experiences only? When good things happen, your reflex will make you feel happy. We need to groom ourselves to find happiness even in a miserable moment. You need to find happiness in everything you do and experience. Believe there is nothing such as perfection and keep your mind open to anything that may happen. Do not keep your mind focussed on the good things that may happen. You will experience or feel what you have trained your mind to believe. Believe that the basic motive of life is good and be happy with whatever may happen. Train your mind to laugh over tears. One of the most important factors for feeling happy is to live with integrity and honesty. One of the initial lessons for all of us was to be honest. Telling the truth is not an essential part of being happy but definitely, a big part. All of us would have been in trouble sometime or the other by telling the truth however, would feel relieved, as there’s nothing that we are holding back in our mind. Telling the truth would make you feel bad at times when that upsets the other person for no good reason. Being verbally incontinent is not acting with integrity and honesty. You can refrain from sharing things that are personal to you, as that doesn’t add any value to the listener other than just spicing up the conversation. You need to use your discretion wisely while striving to be honest and act with integrity to make you happy.

First blog of my life!

Hey Readers!


I wonder what thoughts each of you nurtured in your mind before you started blogging.


I was always curious as to how somebody would start blogging. I was apprehensive about the topics that I should blog on to begin with. I kept toggling between topics and believe it or not this is a spur of the moment beginning. I couldn't make up my mind on what should my baby blog be.


All apprehensions are down the drain. I just realised that there isn't anything that you need to plan and blue print. It's one's mind and this is our world of thoughts. Thoughts don't float in one's mind by planning or scheduling and blogs don't float in the same way either. You need to let your thoughts (Not always! Imagination may also work) pour out through your fingers onto this blogger world.


So, whoever thought that you need to take time or plan things out before you blog, just chuck that and walk right in to this world of blogs!